Never drew a sword, still ran the ship
You never fought once, yet on that ship your word was law โ if the crew didn't like tonight's menu, even the roughest pirates minded their manners around you. You were the one gentle soul among hardened sailors, and on bad days they'd drift into the galley for a little comfort. Rough around the edges but better at taking care of people than anyone: the real power behind the captain.
Advice for this life โ Stop only looking after everyone else. Let someone look after you.